A Blog By Dream (Silas) Omans
love - self mastery - romance - perception - entrepreneurship - art
“Relationships aren't perfect” is often just a cop out used to stay comfortable
I'm composing this in response to a comment from a woman on one of my social media posts. She expressed frustration with my tendency to dissect things in detail, suggesting that no relationship is fla... ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women
October 06, 2023•7 min read
Your unwillingness to examine the actions that you believe result from you 'just loving too hard' is the reason why you don't have the love you want…
Many women exhibit a common behavior that, in my observation, is doing them a significant disservice. It acts as a blind-spot where so many actions, beliefs, etc fly under the radar and thus can never... ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women &Deep Seated Unworthiness
September 05, 2023•7 min read
You attract who you are NOT just who you KNOW yourself to be…
When it comes to attracting men, I’ve often heard women claim that “you attract who you are”. On the flip side, I've encountered women who express fatigue and skepticism toward this idea. Some women ... ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women
August 18, 2023•14 min read
Why I’m not completely sold on the ‘don’t marry potential’ advice
Women sometimes find themselves in less-than-ideal relationships with men, where they prioritize their fantasy of who they want the man to be over his true self. This often leads to a nightmarish expe... ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women
July 25, 2023•9 min read
Choosing to be with someone means choosing to be influenced by them, to merge with them, and to experience them… so if you’re going to complain about how being in a relationship “infringes upon your freedom”, just stay single.
We often hear about people feeling like they can't truly be themselves in a relationship, and how their partner's actions can be perceived as emotionally abusive for limiting their personal freedom. ...more
Perspective Shift
July 12, 2023•6 min read
Let’s talk about the space where needing a man is both good, right, and necessary. Spoiler: not every woman is in the space to be “needing” a man
Last year I spoke a lot about why women should let themselves need their man because if she doesn’t, it puts a cap on how deep their connection can really go. ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women &Deep Seated Unworthiness
June 14, 2023•7 min read
3 GIGANTIC ways expansive, desired based love differs from the need driven, limited love the world tries to shove down your throat
People often hold extreme beliefs when it comes to romantic love. Some become cynical, convinced that true love doesn't exist. I've heard women claim that men should only be valued for their resource... ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women &Deep Seated Unworthiness
June 13, 2023•10 min read
Anytime you feel like "it has to be him", chances are, it won't work out between you and that man
Anytime you feel like "it has to be him", chances are, it won't work out between you and that man ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women &Deep Seated Unworthiness
June 09, 2023•8 min read
Your need for a man to come and save you is actually blocking the man of your dreams
We are in an interesting time where women are waking up from their slumber of hyper-independence and admitting to themselves that actually— I don’t want to do this all my own. ...more
Perspective Shift ,Love for women &Deep Seated Unworthiness
June 05, 2023•3 min read
When your desire for expansive union is pure, it comes into your life seamlessly
Lots of women get caught up in where to meet the right men. Or what to do or say or wear to attract the right type of men. ...more
Perspective Shift
June 03, 2023•5 min read
