In the CORRECT romantic context, your emotions can be safely expressed, your desires and needs can be met, you can fully be yourself, be open, love deeply, be free and experience the deep love, support, and provision you desire.
However, it's crucial to place yourself in the appropriate context for these experiences. You must properly position yourself for what you desire to experience; position yourself to be who you are fully and get exactly what you want in love.
I notice that many women tend to have the right behavior but in the wrong setting; in the wrong context; to the wrong type of man.
They put themselves in situations where their full selves or what they desire can't flourish.
The Deep Love Great Work Association (my private newsletter + community) is designed to assist you in discovering the ideal context for your fullness and helping you position yourself to access the high level love, support, and fulfillment you genuinely desire.
To say I’m excited about this offer is an understatement.
This is the only offer I’ve seen out there that is designed for this very specific reason.
So let’s get into the specifics of why you should join:
You should join because different seasons call for different wisdom, and in DLGWA, you'll receive the wisdom you need to position yourself for the high-level love, support, and fulfillment you genuinely desire.
Understand that being single, in a "situationship", divorced, married, or in a complex relationship falls along a spectrum. You'll experience different seasons within that spectrum.
DLGWA provides support at various levels and during different seasons.
How can you be sure you'll receive the specific wisdom you need to position yourself for high-level love and support?
Well, regardless of where you are on the spectrum or the season you're in, you're continually being provided with insights and corrections through your interactions with men. This data and correction are given to help you deepen your connection, love, and support.
If you can't perceive this correction and data, it's challenging to receive it and use it to your advantage. In DLGWA's private community, you can ask me anything.
You have the opportunity to share the details of your situation with me, and from there, I can provide guidance to help you identify the corrections and valuable insights you've ALREADY been receiving. and advise you on how to apply them for your current season.
The private newsletter is an extension of the wisdom I share for free in this blog.
It offers a comprehensive understanding of the thoughts you should cultivate and the approaches you need to improve your self-worth.
This includes guidance on choosing men who value you at your level of worthiness and nurturing a beautiful union. Through the newsletter, you receive consistent wisdom every week, allowing the ideas to penetrate your being and support your path to mastery.
Navigating the ebbs and flows of love is a skill you can learn by reading the private weekly newsletter and engaging in the community.
Situations you'll explore by joining DLGWA include:
Knowing when to need a man versus when to simply desire one. Different wisdom is required depending on your season and where you are on the love-commitment spectrum. Some women would be better off if she stopped needing a man while other women would be better off if she actually allowed herself to need her man.
Knowing when to be more logical in your approach versus when to express more emotion. Balancing logic and emotion is essential for various phases of your connection with a man.
There are times when a logical approach is necessary and other times when tapping into your emotions, deepening into yourself, and your heart is more essential. For instance, in the beginning of a connection with a man, logic must be used to assess important information about who he is, if you share the same values, if you desire the same thing, and so on and so forth.
However, in the beginning, it's also of great importance that he can actually feel you and your aliveness. This is what he will connect with most and eventually fall in love with. This means you must be “feelable”, which has very little to do with being logical.
Knowing when to accept a man's humanity versus when to accept reality. It's crucial to differentiate between accepting a man's humanity and accepting reality.
If you can respect and love the core of who a man is and he can provide you with a space where you can grow, expand, pivot, rest, be at ease, and be well loved, then he is a suitable man for you. And it is then that you can freely accept and grow to love the human in him.
But telling a woman who’s well being is being jeopardized to accept a man’s humanity can be dangerous.
Knowing when to improve versus knowing when your natural expression is sufficient. When I say “you don't need to put on a performance to impress a man” and “your natural expression is enough”, this is indeed true, but to a certain extent. It does not mean that you can be insufferable, mediocre, or unpleasant to be around.
What I mean is to become the woman, if you're not already, who invests in herself and naturally becomes impressive to the point that, when she meets a man, she doesn't feel the need to perform because she is being herself. It's not an act, and she's genuinely impressive.
Knowing when to heal more or when to adopt the identity of being already healed, whole, and well. Some women may need to focus on healing themselves more. Others may find that being loved well can contribute to their healing, while some women may simply need to understand that they are already healed, whole, and enough.
In the Deep Love Great Work private newsletter and community, I'll also show you how to break free from the all-or-nothing black-and-white mentality and embrace an abundance mindset.
For example, I'll show you how to
Create space for a man to make significant strides toward you, AND still let him know you're interested in him. There is a beautiful harmony in fully enjoying a man and expressing your enjoyment while still allowing him to take significant steps towards you before you invest your heart fully in the relationship.
I'll show you how to feel worthy without being entitled or feeling owed. Feeling owed often stems from feeling wronged by men in some way, leading to an underlying bitterness and a sense of a negative debt that men are obligated to repay.
When you receive something while feeling owed, its value diminishes, and it becomes challenging to appreciate something you feel entitled to because you believe it should already be yours.
On the other hand, worthiness is about recognizing that your self-value aligns with a particular level of situation, experience, and type of person. Worthiness in action involves only engaging with men who see and appreciate your true worth.
I'll show you how to always know that you'll be loved unconditionally while still appreciating the man you're with. True love transcends a specific person; it transcends you and comes directly from God.
It can never be taken away from you; it is intrinsic. A woman operating on this level of awareness understands that as long as she accepts this truth and allows love into her life, she will have countless people in her lifetime ready to love her.
She knows that love in her life is limitless.
However, this doesn't mean she treats her husband as expendable.
On the contrary, she can love him wholeheartedly and cherish the unique way he loves her.
Furthermore, she comprehends that love encompasses their union, story, and romance but also transcends them, ensuring that it's never lost.
These are just some of the things we explore in the Deep Love Great Work Association.
As you can see, these concepts are nuanced and multifaceted. They have several layers and levels to be explored. That's why in our private newsletter and community, we delve into these layers, levels, nuances, and contexts so you can embrace your full self and position yourself for the ideal romantic context.
In this context, you can achieve your desires in your love life, obtain the support and provisions you seek, and experience high-level love with the right man.
If this post nourished you in any way, I invite you to become a member of the Deep Love, Great Work Association.
Work with me inside of the Deep Love Great Work Association; the private membership community you want to be in to position yourself for the love that matches your depth and to be successful doing the work that matches your greatness. In this offer, we explore the deeper perspectives, the mindset, the values, the priorities, and the principles that you need to build a proper foundation of which deep love is a natural byproduct.
We also discuss how these same principles, values, and mindset/perspective shifts help you align with your PURPOSE, be yourself, and do your greatest work. You can join here if that interests you.