A Blog By Dream (Silas) Omans
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One reason why you feel dismissed in your relationship and like your needs and desires are not prioritized is because you are over-tending to the man you're with. Shift the dynamic between you two by expressing your feelings and needs clearly without nagging him, and observe how he responds to you to determine alignment and suitability.
One reason why you feel dismissed in your relationship and like your needs and desires are not prioritized is because you are over-tending to the man you're with. Shift the dynamic between you two by ... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
July 24, 2024•9 min read
Navigating the Dating World as a Single Mom: A Comprehensive Guide
Dating can be challenging for anyone, but for single moms, it often feels like an insurmountable task. The added responsibilities and emotional weight can make the prospect of finding a meaningful con... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &Q&A
July 22, 2024•4 min read
It feels like you never meet any man that is truly aligned with you because you can’t even tell if a man is the right man for you without being able to properly express yourself to him and taking him in as he responds to you.
If you’ve met and gone on dates with many men—some okay, others terrible, and a few really good—yet none have actually been aligned with you, one reason this happens is because you’re not properly exp... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
June 11, 2024•12 min read
NOT enjoying yourself while dating and forming all of these dead end relationships with men is an indication that you’re probably abandoning your agency in your love life.
NOT enjoying yourself while dating and forming all of these dead end relationships with men is an indication that you’re probably abandoning your agency in your love life. ...more
Love for women ,IRL
April 25, 2024•12 min read
One reason why you keep meeting men with “red flags” is because you cut them off immediately instead of addressing the issue by speaking up for yourself and expressing what you are and aren’t available for, eliminating the need for you to keep on experiencing men with “red flags” over and over.
One reason why you keep meeting men with “red flags” is because you cut them off immediately instead of addressing the issue by speaking up for yourself... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
April 23, 2024•13 min read
High standards on their own don't keep you single. Nor do they eliminate suitable options for you. But your high standards built from anger, resentment, entitlement, and feeling “owed, keep you single by eliminating even suitable options for you.
High standards on their own don't keep you single. Nor do they eliminate suitable options for you. But your high standards built from anger, resentment, entitlement, and feeling “owed... ...more
Love for women ,EMODATA &IRL
April 04, 2024•12 min read
The reason why dating is exhausting to you is because you pour your energy all over a man and try to accelerate the connection with him when you start to like him (which repels him) instead of realizing that all you have to do is enjoy him, express that you like spending time with him, and allow him the freedom and space to step up for you or not.
The reason why dating is exhausting to you is because you pour your energy all over a man and try to accelerate the connection with him when you start to like him ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
April 02, 2024•11 min read
The reason why following the advice of "choose better men" doesn’t work for you is because you perceive selecting the 'right' man as a one-time, one-off decision rather than an ongoing practice that involves always choosing what you are and aren’t available for relative to your own well being, your heart, and the commitment, love, and support you desire now and in the long term with a man.
The reason why following the advice of "choose better men" doesn’t work for you is because you perceive selecting the 'right' man as a one-time... ...more
Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle
April 01, 2024•10 min read
You weren't made to endure back-to-back mediocre or nightmare experiences in love, only to believe that 'everything happens for a reason.' Instead, accept that the ‘reason’ they happen is to get you to understand that you are responsible for your own heart and being loved well.
You weren't made to endure back-to-back mediocre or nightmare experiences in love, only to believe that 'everything happens for a reason.' Instead, accept that the ‘reason’... ...more
Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle
March 27, 2024•10 min read
You waste your own time being anxious about where your connection with a man you really like is going, instead of properly expressing to him that you desire marriage from the beginning and prioritizing that desire by reserving activities that would make you prematurely attached to him for deeper commitment.
You waste your own time being anxious about where your connection with a man you really like is going, instead of properly expressing to him that you desire marriage from the beginning... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
March 19, 2024•10 min read
