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It feels like you never meet any man that is truly aligned with you because you can’t even tell if a man is the right man for you without being able to properly express yourself to him and taking him in as he responds to you.

If you’ve met and gone on dates with many men—some okay, others terrible, and a few really good—yet none have actually been aligned with you, one reason this happens is because you’re not properly exp... ...more

Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL

June 11, 202412 min read

It feels like you never meet any man that is truly aligned with you because you can’t even tell if a man is the right man for you without being able to properly express yourself to him and taking him in as he responds to you.

NOT enjoying yourself while dating and forming all of these dead end relationships with men is an indication that you’re probably abandoning your agency in your love life.

NOT enjoying yourself while dating and forming all of these dead end relationships with men is an indication that you’re probably abandoning your agency in your love life. ...more

Love for women ,IRL

April 25, 202412 min read

NOT enjoying yourself while dating and forming all of these dead end relationships with men is an indication that you’re probably abandoning your agency in your love life.

One reason why you keep meeting men with “red flags” is because you cut them off immediately instead of addressing the issue by speaking up for yourself and expressing what you are and aren’t available for, eliminating the need for you to keep on experiencing men with “red flags” over and over.

One reason why you keep meeting men with “red flags” is because you cut them off immediately instead of addressing the issue by speaking up for yourself... ...more

Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL

April 23, 202413 min read

One reason why you keep meeting men with “red flags” is because you cut them off immediately instead of addressing the issue by speaking up for yourself and expressing what you are and aren’t available for, eliminating the need for you to keep on experiencing men with “red flags” over and over.

High standards on their own don't keep you single. Nor do they eliminate suitable options for you. But your high standards built from anger, resentment, entitlement, and feeling “owed, keep you single by eliminating even suitable options for you.

High standards on their own don't keep you single. Nor do they eliminate suitable options for you. But your high standards built from anger, resentment, entitlement, and feeling “owed... ...more

Love for women ,EMODATA &IRL

April 04, 202412 min read

High standards on their own don't keep you single. Nor do they eliminate suitable options for you. But your high standards built from anger, resentment, entitlement, and feeling “owed, keep you single by eliminating even suitable options for you.

You weren't made to endure back-to-back mediocre or nightmare experiences in love, only to believe that 'everything happens for a reason.' Instead, accept that the ‘reason’ they happen is to get you to understand that you are responsible for your own heart and being loved well.

You weren't made to endure back-to-back mediocre or nightmare experiences in love, only to believe that 'everything happens for a reason.' Instead, accept that the ‘reason’... ...more

Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle

March 27, 202410 min read

You weren't made to endure back-to-back mediocre or nightmare experiences in love, only to believe that 'everything happens for a reason.' Instead, accept that the ‘reason’ they happen is to get you to understand that you are responsible for your own heart and being loved well.

You waste your own time being anxious about where your connection with a man you really like is going, instead of properly expressing to him that you desire marriage from the beginning and prioritizing that desire by reserving activities that would make you prematurely attached to him for deeper commitment.

You waste your own time being anxious about where your connection with a man you really like is going, instead of properly expressing to him that you desire marriage from the beginning... ...more

Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL

March 19, 202410 min read

You waste your own time being anxious about where your connection with a man you really like is going, instead of properly expressing to him that you desire marriage from the beginning and prioritizing that desire by reserving activities that would make you prematurely attached to him for deeper commitment.

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